adulting

and birmy and croat are back!
how is this not more important than the mismatch and the new without-name

we have grown, and are continuing to grow
develop our stamina and upping our 'adversity' dealing prowess (hah adversity)
aka our adulting capacity
but there are beauts here in there in our little ambitions and minute achievements too
in addition to the big love and support and connection we share, sometimes absent but it's there
maybe a phone call or a few messages away

we are adults now
presumably we are
and giant kids too
with a lot more things in our heads and things to tend
who would have thought there could be so many things
even (way) before we enter parenthood

we have become more reflective and understanding
towards the world's uncertainties and messiness
because whose lives are not ambiguous and all over the place if we are to
embrace
bandwidth they say


who stays sane in this claustrophobic city senseless to the common
mad world
and here we continue to sail in the haze under the storm
with grace and audacity